In order to see the depth of the real person you might happen to live with, take thirty 3X5 cards in your hand and write a separate truth about that person on each card. Examples: Sylvia hates vegetables, Sylvia gets down on a rainy day, Sylvia loves walking barefoot in the sand. And then read one a day for thirty days. This action fights self-centeredness, familiarity, projection and indifference. (Not written with any Sylvia in mind.)
